i have a feeling this girl has more "waking hours" than her dad knows about. we need david (the yc guy)to tell us what this means. is it harmful? how should we deal with it? is it just her thing, like playing halo to a guy?

That's nothing. The day after I read that article online, my local "news website" provided a link to another article about a similar situation, except THIS teenage girl (age 14) texted 35,000 messages in one month!

That girl's dad thinks it's harmless because it keeps her from "getting bored" and having other bad habits. As a youth pastor, that scares me a little because, like you said, anything that becomes that out of control can be harmful. Interesting food for thought!

Here's the link:
http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/local/lake/orl-text1409jan14,0,5867250.story

I've had 14,000 texts in one month and i didn't text every waking moment. Convos go fast on texting, and its usually multiple people. I use texting to witness and fellowship with people. Its the modern age, and it needs to be used. I'm a Pastoral Major at Pensacola Christian College. Texting, like anything else, can be used for good, or abused. Please don't assume the worst on any teenager.

-Joe

HOLY CRAP Batman!!!

I just saw WALL-E the other night and when I saw all the fat people buzzing around on their chairs glued to the screen in front of them I immediately thought of so many of the students in my youth ministry.

Not so much the fat part, but the glued to the screen part. So many of them have no clue how to interact as people. Most could beat me at thumb wrestling since that is the once muscle that gets used most, but they have a heckuva time carrying a conversation for more than 2 sentences.

Every time I go to a ball game I see 2/3 of the student section w/ their heads down, eyes glued to their phone while their thumbs work furiosly to text the friend 3' down the bleachers.

It has finally happened I got old and tired of trying to keep up and be cool...

Wes

Jon Forrest,
You asked for my thoughts about this as the “youth culture guy.” First, thanks for your thoughts on the youth culture window about texting. I think that 14,000 text messages per month is a bit excessive, but remember, one message can be sent to multiple recipients at the same time...each counting as a separate text message. (For example, I used to draft a text message about our Friday night outreach events each week, and then text it to every single kid that afternoon as soon as school was out. One message, but it counted as 300.)
More than likely, this girl is NOT running an outreach event each week! So, I’m pretty sure most of those messages are individual, meaning she probably did send close to 14,000 text messages that month.
What do we do about it? I think it’s of paramount importance that we responsibly use technology to reach kids, and at the same time, continually encourage them to engage with their friends AND US in face-to-face conversations. No amount of text messages from us as youth workers can replace the ministry of “presence” that we offer kids.
David R. Smith